I have a deep dark secret that I just have to get off of my chest. This will be news to everyone that reads it. Ok, maybe not everyone, but it’ll definitely blow the minds of any men that might read my blog.
So, here it goes……Women…….Good Women…..Beautiful Women…..Nice Women….Religious Women….Teachers….Mothers…..and Church Wives…
WE ALLLLLLL LIKE SEX!!!!!!!!!!!
we all LOVE sex.
Kinky sex, feisty sex, sweaty, in bed, car, couch, park sex. We like sex!!!!!!!
Ok now that the secrets out, lets talk about it…..
Women want to have sex. We yearn for it often. I can’t say whether or not it is as often as a man because I’m not a man therefore I cannot accurately compare the two, but what I do know is that women are sexual beings. We are sexy and we want to share it with someone. You think we want to keep all of this sexiness to ourselves? Hell nah!
We want to send sexy text messages and picture mail. We want to meet you at the door in our sexiest lingerie or in our birthday suits. We want a man to slap our ass while we make dinner. We want to be kissed passionately and touched intensely. We just don’t want it from any and everybody.
We live in a day and age where instant gratification is at an all time high.
You want to eat? It can be delivered or even faster than that, pop something in the microwave.
You want a flat stomach? Get a tummy tuck.
You’re feeling lonely? Hop on social media.
Feeling sexual? Watch pornography.
There isn’t too much that is not at our beck and call. Even intimacy is for sale, escorts, and exotic dancers.
Yet there is one thing all of these things have in common and that is a lack of authenticity.
They just aren’t the real thing.
You know why people don’t care to have the real thing anymore? Because, the real thing takes time and effort. The same thing goes with women, relationships and this kitty kat!
One hang out doesn’t mean a woman has to be comfortable with being physically intimate with you (and yes, kissing is also a form of intimacy) and because a woman doesn’t want to have sex, touch you, or even kiss you after just meeting you doesn’t mean she isn’t interested. It may just mean she isn’t yet comfortable enough with you to show physical intimacy. WHAT IS THE GODDAMN RUSH!
Again! WE WANT TO HAVE SEX TOO!!!!!! And that day will come. Be patient, let her know who you really are and allow her to cherish who you really are.
And she will satisfy your every need.
And it will be the real deal.