Now that I am a mom, the way I date has changed.
I don’t date as much as I use to because time is money….ok so that’s not exactly why but it sounds cool.
Honestly, I just can’t find the time. My responsibilities are different and huge. Not to mention I am a woman with a career, not a job, a CAREER. That means my work is never finished. Oh and when you are dating a mom, please know that she is a mom 24/7 even when her kid isn’t around. He or she is always on her mind.
Every Outing is NOT a Date!
Before we even get to the dating stage I need to know:
YOU ARE NOT MY MAN!
I REPEAT .... YOU ARE NOT MY MAN!!!
If we hang out a few times and I don’t feel you are a good match for my son and I, its cool, we can be friends.
This doesn’t mean he’s an awful person. This simply means he doesn’t have what I see in a husband or a father for my current child or future children. Just because he’s a good man doesn’t mean he has to be MY man. I know what I want and I deserve what I want and I WILL. NOT. SETTLE.
I Repeat... I (black girl hand clap) WILL (black girl hand clap)NOT(black girl hand clap)SETTLE(black girl hand clap).
Been there, done that, never going back!
At this stage in my life I am dating for two. And let me tell you… we are one hell of a package.
Whomever the man is that wins our hearts will have to be one hell of a guy. Only the best for me and mine.